The first reason is that they are simply not serious. Whenever I speak
with a man or woman who has achieved something remarkable, I learn that
the achievement occurred after that person decided to “get serious.”
Until you become completely serious and totally determined about your
goals, nothing really happens.

The second reason why people don’t set goals is that they don’t
understand the importance of goals. We find that young men and women
who begin setting goals very early in life invariably come from
families in which the importance of goals is emphasized. The discussion
that takes place around your family dinner table is one of the most
powerful formative influences in your life. If your parents didn’t have
goals, didn’t talk about goals, didn’t encourage you to set goals, and
didn’t talk about people outside the family circle who had goals and
were moving toward a higher level of achievement, then you very likely
grew up with the idea that goals are not even a part of normal
existence. This is the case for most people. And for many years, it was
the case for me.

The third reason why people don’t set goals is because they don’t know
how to do it. One of the greatest tragedies of our educational system
is that you can receive 15 to 18 years of education in our schools and
never once receive a single hour of instruction on how to set goals.
Yet we find that in certain schools where goal-setting programs have
been introduced since first grade, young people become excited about
goal-setting – even if the goal is only to increase the scores by 5 or
10 percent over the course of the semester, or to be on time every day
in the course of a month. Children become so excited about achieving
goals that by the third or fourth grade, they love to go to school.
They get the best grades. They are seldom absent. They are excited
about themselves and about their lives. So encourage your children to
set worthwhile and realistic goals from an early age.

The fourth reason why people don’t set goals is fear of rejection. The
fear of rejection is caused by destructive criticism in early childhood
and is manifested, in adulthood, in the fear of criticism by others.
Many people hold back from setting worthwhile goals because they have
found that every time they do set a goal, somebody steps up and tells
them that they can’t achieve it, or that they will lose their money or
waste their time. Because each of us is strongly influenced by the
opinions of those around us, one of the first things that you must
learn when you begin setting goals is to keep your goals confidential.
Don’t tell anyone about them. Often, it’s the fear of criticism that,
more than any other single factor, stops you from goal-setting in the
first place. So keep your goals to yourself, with one exception. Share
your goals only with others who are committed to achieving goals of
their own and who really want you to be successful and achieve your
goals as well. Other than that, don’t tell anybody about your goals, so
no one is in a position to criticize you, or to discourage you from
setting your goals.

The fifth reason why people don’t set goals – and perhaps the most
important reason of all – is the fear of failure. People don’t set
goals because they are afraid that they might fail. In fact, the fear
of failure is probably the greatest single obstacle to success in adult
life. It can hold you back more than any other psychological problem.
The primary reason why you fear failure is simply this: You probably do
not understand the role that failure plays in achievement. The fact is
that it is impossible to succeed without failing. Failure is an
indispensable prerequisite for success. All great success is preceded
by great failure. If you wish to fulfill your potential, you have to be
willing to risk failure over and over and over, because there is no way
that you can ever accomplish worthwhile goals until you have fallen on
your face so many times that you have eventually learned the lessons
that you need for great achievement. In doing research for his classic
book The Law of Success, Napoleon Hill interviewed more than 500 of the
most successful men and women in America. All of them admitted to him
that they had achieved their greatest successes just one step beyond
the point where they had experienced their greatest failures. A key to
succeeding through goal-setting is expecting temporary setbacks and
obstacles as inevitable parts of the goal-achieving process.

So these are the words and phrases to remember in setting and achieving
goals: The first is get to it! Get started; take the first action at
hand. The second is opportunity. Begin to prepare yourself now so that
you will be ready for the opportunities that will inevitably arise. The
third is ability. Resolve to learn what you need to know to live the
kind of life you want to live. The fourth word is leadership. Take
charge of your time and your life, and accept responsibility for your
results. And, finally, stay with it. If you stay with it long enough,
nothing can stop you from winning.

-Brian Tracy

It’s a proven fact that the most successful people today are committed to training and constant improvement. Successful people never stop learning.  If you look at the top performers in any category, from sports to business, they train daily.  

That’s one way we can start achieving our goals today.  I believe that learning comes naturally to those who are already top achievers.  They love to learn, and with that subconscious motivation running rampant, every experience they have is a learning experience.  So, we just have to be fired up about our passions, and live life through tinted glasses, aware of opportunities all of the time.

Passion & Money, Which Comes First? at Goal Setting College
When you’ve decided to go after your passion intensely and wholeheartedly, your burning desire and faith will open up new opportunities in your life, making sure you achieve what you set your mind on. In whatever form you’ve decided it to be. And in whatever time you’ve planned to realize it.

That’s great news for those of us who are blinded by passion, and a kick in the butt for those of us looking the other way. Go, follow your gut! It could make you a millionaire, or not, but you won’t care because you’ll be splendidly happy either way.

Les Brown DVD – Live Full and Die Empty

This is just the beginning!